Car and house keys are separate... for some reason I locked the door to wash my car...

No wallet, no phone, gas light on the Z

Come to find out my ****in gf was in NO and she has the key... didn't tell me **** and ignored me all weekend

 

what a beotch.

 

Whats the deal with us getting a hotel room for this saturday night? Is that still an option or is we just on our owns?

 

i tried callin my friend at the hilton riverside and still no answer...my other friend to me to check priceline or hotels.com...he got a room at the hilton for 50bucks

 

Greg, you still bringing your girl to NO for some of the day Sat.?

 

My coworker was telling me that too. Said he was getting rooms for $50-60 bucks

 

:shrugs:

Found out she's been in NO since Saturday and planned on ignoring me since Saturday...

Pretty close to saying fug it.

 

Sorry to hear that man. Were you two having problems?

 

Hasn't been the greatest but it was getting better since school was over with. She's just being needy...

It just pisses me off because she says she wanted to go out of town or what not... but also plans a trip to New York and didn't invite me because "she had to get away" yet if I pull something like that off... all hell breaks loose.

 

You better believe it. I told Heather that we needed to spend some time apart. I only meant that we needed to do our own thing for a little while on saturday or sunday. She went ballistic thinking I was breaking up with her. Needless to say, she took it way out of proportion. She was pissed at me and everything I would say she would say "oh..I thought you wanted to spend time apart, huh?" When she says something like this, I'm an a-hole if I don't agree.

 

It's getting bad between Heather and I because we don't spend time away from each other when we are not at work. I barely ever get to do car stuff without her when I want to because she wants to do that to. I liked the fact that she supported my car addiction in the beginning but now I can't even get my space with that sometimes.

 

Girls are crazy man... they get so used to things and when you get tired of something, its like OMFG you don't want me anymore because you don't do this

 

Hell, Leah's never had a problem with me and the Z. She loves the Z but its like now all of a sudden she doesn't like it...

 

I have been with Mitzi for over 5 years... we have been through alot of shat. We try to make space and do our own things, but some stuff (like shopping) I hate but I get dragged into going. I can understand her possition... she doesn't have alot of friends and some of the ones she does have are traiter scandlus biches, she works full time, and goes to school full time, on top of helping me with the Biz. Its alot and it has caused her to spontaniously stress out.

So the moral of this is... If your chic wants space... she is more than likly stressed out over something, and its not always because of you!

hope you work thinks out guys...

 

Well in my case its sort of the opposite. I've been really stressed out due to family problems back home and its just something I've asked her to leave me alone about... Seems like working on my car and hanging out with the Z guys is my escape from reality... With her, she kept bringing it up when I asked her not to.

 

My situation is also opposite. I've been stressed out from work. I asked her for a little time apart and she didn't understand. I told her that I didn't mean breaking up. I just meant we kinda do our own thing sometimes and meet up later on in the day. Or I go by myself to the track, meets, etc. She was pissed because now she think I don't want to spend time with her. You just can't win.

 

This is for both...

She feels like you are pushing her away, and she is right.
She knows your stressed and she wants to help you through it, so by pushing her away durring a time of need... in her eyes... you dont need her at all.

Think about what I first wrote in terms of YOU!!

 

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True...Never really looked at it like that. Thanks.

 

whats up fellas