Straightened it out! Thanks
Chad

 

You are correct that he hasn't been on the forum since Dec 1 so it's possible he is out of touch right now, that could explain the delays.

Looking at his iTrader rating, he's obviously very active and has no negative feedback. I say give him some time to respond.

 

See and that was what I was looking at and while I was debating on it. Also, because I feel bad for sending him the wrong part in the first place. I leave to go out of country in next couple days and was wanting to get this taken care of before then. I figured he may have not got on here, but would at least check his emails.

So another week before I file be good or should I wait even longer? I hate filing disputes. I want to give everyone the benifit of the doubt.

Thanks for the response.
Chad

 

Yeah id give him the benefit of the doubt. You have 30 days to file a claim with Paypal. So its really up to you. And just keep those emails and pms as evidence to get your money back.

 

You sent the buyer the wrong part and you want to file a dispute?

 

I would contact paypal and make them aware of it. I have always been told the earlier the better.

 

Still waiting on the build date from the rear I bought from you six months ago that you neglected to list was from an auto. No disputes filed here, I even gave you positive feedback. You were supposed to get the records from the salvage yard you got it from.
You never got back to me and ignored my PM's. I still need the build date so I can order the proper bearings.

 

Ill resend the email that I still have in my email account with all of that info that I sent you days after you requested it. I never heard back from you after I sent the email so figured you got it.

 

I sent him the wrong part then refunded the money and sent him additional funds to send the part back to me and have yet to get that.

 

and just in case you do not get the email I send to you again it was Nov. of 04 build date for the 05 diff that I sold you.

 

I guess this thread was about me and my negligence? Oh wait...Heres the real story.

Let me fill you guys on on what happened. And the following is all true facts, no BS.

The OP listed a pass side A pillar for sale which is what I needed obviously. I sent him payment for the piller less that two hours after he listed it. I notified him when I had sent the payment and all was good.

PM on 10/31/10 minutes after Payment:
Here is the Original thread:

https://my350z.com/forum/exterior/50...one-cheap.html

I then wait over a week to here about shipping/tracking and the OP said "the package was returned to him"

PM on 11/9/10:

At which point I confirmed the address with him and let him know that I did not recieve any letters of a missed package. Then on that same date (11/9/10) I had asked him for tracking and his response was:

Right...delivery confirmation? So they leave it without signature? Nevermind, next...

No tracking was ever provided.

And then, after no response for over yet another week until he says on 11/17/10 after I ask him once again for tracking, he says:

Then another PM on 11/20/10:

8 More days pass by with no tracking, no a pillar, and no response until I finally tell him And his response on 11/28/10 is:

Took a month to get tracking...but still no a pillar

Here is where it gets good...

Finaly!

On 11/30/10 I recieve the package laying on my porche with no sig. confirm. or insurance...but whatever, I am so happy it finally came! I open the package to reaveal that the OP has sent me the wrong side A pillar After all that, this part is worthless to me now(not to mention in the time he took to get it to me, I passed up on an even better deal for another silverstone A pillar, thinking I had one coming)

At which point I responded:


His response:

Then he has the nerve to relist it correctly while I'm holding it in my hands while I'm re-wraping it up and asks me to vouch on his new thread to verify that it is indeed mint condition so he has a better chance to sell it to someone else after he raised the price.

You have got to be kidding me...

Long story short, (I know too late for that now), we agree for him to give me a refund which we both felt is fair, and also to pay me the exact shipping charges to return it to him, also fair.

And I will be honest, It took me two weeks to ship it back to him due to the fact that I work 12 hours a day, 6 days a week and can never make it to the post office before they close. ( which I notified him of this anyway)

I do not have use of a computer very often due to my work schedual which explains why I am not on this forum 24/7. My feedback is perfect because I try my best to be an honest seller buyer.

I realized that this was a mistake and thats fine, but to consider filing a paypal dispute against me for taking half the time it took you to send me the part to send it back to you at my own expense and time?, and the wrong part at that? Seriously? And I made it a point not to harrass you with daily PM's like some people do to me all the time.

Its obvious that we are both very reputable sellers here, and I will also leave you good feedback, just want you to understand where I'm coming from. I was about to start a dispute/thread about you but also gave you the benefit of the doubt due to your feedback.

Anyway, sorry for the long post, but I just wanted to clear things up.

Thanks for your time!

 

Thank you for your understanding and common sense.