I take that back...

Mod 2 = 4 Louis Vuitton purses $500-$800 each, 1 wallet approx $250.00

 

dude, having a girlfriend who's name is Paris isn't the best thing in the world... :P

 

And you thought I was done...

Mod 5 = Diamond Rolex watch

 

oh snap dog.

 

wireben, it must be some good _____.

 

or hes ***** whipped :P

 

I think its the girls loss to have left you. you shouldnt be with girls like that newayz, i think that in a relationship, things should be equal, she cares for ur needs and u care ofr hers, cant always just be doing things for her. I'd so dump my gf if she was like that. but then again, if my gf realli loved me, cared for me, was loyal and i realli liked her, i'd give up my Z anyday for her.

 

Get rid of her, this picture is bad *** and is the truth.

I want some one who understands my passion, I have yet to spend a whole lot of money on my Z but i plan to and you know what it makes me happy, and i dont want somebody around who wants me to spend my hard eearned money on something that wont make me happy.

I think she was thinking you could be spending money on her, wich instead thats the wrong thought process for some one you love to have.

 

WTF is wrong with people? WTH is she to tell you how to spend your money anyway. Youre a hottie with a Z, you ll have no probs replacing her. Since I got my Z, if you want a date with me, you ll need a Z [a critical requirement]

 

I agree with Z2000maxima guy. It sounds like the girl is walking all over for u.

This is what bugs me.
"she's paid for a meal twice in 3 years!!!!"

A good girlfriend won't let u pay 100% of the time. They'll fight with you to try to pay part of the time.

My gf gets excited if i save up and buy mods for my car! She even entertains me and listens to me and talks about cars with me.

It sounds like she's using this as an excuse to break up with you.

If you paid for all the meals, you're probably paying alot of other stuff too.

Trust your instincts..... Listen to that little voice in your head, and if it gives u some doubt .....don't get back with her. Definately do not call her. Show her that you demand a fair relationship and u don't want to be taken for granted.

 

zownz, didn't realize you were so close. Shezzzhot and I are trying to get a Z meet together maybe in Destin/FWB area for those from LA, MS, AL, FL, & GA to go for a weekend. Sounds like you may need some time away. Ya know, to evaluate the situation from a distance.

My X didn't like the Z because he wanted a boat. The next was my friends. Not!!!
Don't give up your dreams and ambitions for anyone. Hell, I'm having the best time of my life right now. No regrets.

 

Sorry to hear that bro. I couldn't help but laugh when I first read the title. Anyway, 3 years is a long time and c'mon your Z is only a car. Although it sounds like you went through what I went through with my ex. I bought that girl everything she rarely had to spend a dime. She was a cool chic though not one you find everyday. She wasn't a gold digger but I think I turned her into one. IMO whatever decision you choose you'll always have the Z .

 

Sounds like you're better off without her. It's your money and you should be able to spend it as you wish. Definitely more to it than what it seems. Save yourself the heartache and move on. Continue with the mods, I SAY!!!!

 

I think there is a lot more to the story....

A girlfriend of three years....I mean come on! I can tell after dating a girl for 4-6 months weather or not I could marry her. She's probably just tired of waiting around on you to commit. Read between the lines, the Z is just a symptom!

 

hahaah thank you dear..
im still coming to NY and i want to be picked up in a Z..

Well the situation went from worse to better, I let her talk and she said this
I dont have a problem you spending money on your car, I just want you to be smart about it and set some money aside for the future( i hope she meant FI, cause thats the only thing that came to my mind...jk)
The way she said it was that she just cared of what will become of me and how i'll live my life later on..We had a good past together..a little fight over something stupid...we share both the same passion which is soccer...neither one of us has ever cheated on one another..
the thing is that we used to be 2gether all the time..and now she went away to college and its different..when i went to college i stayed local...she went like 2 hrs away which is not a lot..but when you work full time and go to school 4 hrs of driving is kind of a lot..but yeah i just hope that everything will works out and maybe i missunderstood her wrong..im hardheaded like that..
Oh btw..you guys living in GA, i have a big meet that i planned coming up in Stone MOuntain Park...check it out in the regional forum, south east.
thanks guys for help=)..if ya want i'll keep ya posted

 

this is a hard arguement to take a side on, being a girl and all. i had a similar problem w/ my boyfriend. we are both really into modding our cars, but for a while, he was just too much into modding, always on the forums looking up stuff, or playing gt4, or working on his car and going to meets. i didnt feel like he was paying attention to me, only his car, and it was really frustrating. i guess if youre a girl and not into cars at all, it does seem a bit bizarre for a guy to obsess about them all day. in my case, i just let mine know that i felt like his car was more important than me, and i didnt feel i was getting the attention i deserved. i mean when youre a girl, and your boyfriend spends all day and night putting his love into something else, it kinda sucks. but we got through all that, and although he still puts all his $$ into his wrx, he doesnt spend as much time on forums and looking for new parts...
im not taking sides, but from a girls perspective, when you put all your time and energy into something else, i can understand how she might have felt neglected. but at the same time, i broke up w/ my last b/f for the same reason, b/c he didnt like how much time i spent modding my Z and going to meets.

hmm. i take no sides. i understand both peoples arguements.

 

So much testosterone, so little wisdom. For those whose only life is a car, I guess it doesn't matter. Someday they will grow up and realize that a car is just an inanimate object which gets them from point A to point B. Some do it with more style or more fun, but it's still just a car that lasts only a few years.

After 20+ years of marriage to the same woman, it is clear to me that the simplistic description of the original poster's problem tells us nothing about the true problems - if he even knows them. He'll have to decide what to do, and he'll have to face the consequences of his decision....that's called being an adult. Running away from an issue because "she owns your *****" is the decision of a child. Running away because the girl "isn't worth it" is more mature. Running away because the poster knows his own shortcomings and realizes their ramifications for the future is the sign of a man. None of this is based on the car at all - that's just a prop in the drama. Only children would make it the main issue.

 

your call ... no one on this board can tell you what to do. It's not like your going to listen, and I'm sure you've already made up your mind on your decesion even before posting, even if you were just leaning to one side more than the other.
you know that little voice inside your head, yea listen to it. Choose a path and plow hard don't look back and have no regrets!

hope you the best ..

 

You should do what I do. If I see something I want. I'll say this week I'll spend $1000 on what I want and you can spend $1000 on what you want. Sometimes she would say "Okay", and other times she would say I don't need anything you go ahead.

 

I've been reading this thread... And everyone has posted pretty much what I would post...

Until I just read...
"the thing is that we used to be 2gether all the time..and now she went away to college and its different..when i went to college i stayed local...she went like 2 hrs away which is not a lot..but when you work full time and go to school 4 hrs of driving is kind of a lot"

Dawg, read between the lines. It's obvious some guys are giving her some attention or diggin on her and since you are 2 hours away and used to be together all the time...Should I say more? Chicks need attention. That's a fact. The Z is the excuse but the bottom line is they need attention. I don't mean to put negative thoughts in your head but the same thing happened to my buddy who has a WRX. He lived in San Francisco, she was in Sacramento (2 hour drive). They were together since high school. Broke up after 6 years because of the 2 hour distance and the lack of attention. In the break up speach, guess what she mentioned? The WRX!

When the truth came out, she started liking some other guy at her school.

Just some wisdom from experience... Hopefully, the same doesn't happen to you!

Good luck!

PS... I'm a soccer fan as well! What leagues do you follow?