And the ownage just gets better.

 

bump for address

 

Im just praying this is real because if so this thread is EPIC.

 

river of tears

 

get a decent job THEN buy a nice car

 

i cant read 11 pages and not post.



your a ****ing idiot, and for the love of god when they repo the car dont get a bike i pay enough in insurance for mine already

 

I wouldn't of even posted this story, why in the hell would you even buy a car if you can't pass your drivers lic. test. If you can't pass that then you shouldn't be driving it basically means take the bus or walk your endangering other people because your being a idiot!

 

i still wanna know how he bought it without a license. I bought mine in cash and still had to show license and insurance

 

+1. same story

 

Look, I understand everyone's frustration and anger towards his actions, but on his reply to my post he admitted his mistakes... and hopes to correct his actions in a responsible manner. He's 18 and probably blinded by the limelight of having a Z... you yourself can not deny how much fun you have having the Z... I can't...

We were all 18 once before, or some of you in this forum are probably turning 18... either way, you probably have done something irresponsible in your life and have regret or probably going to do something irresponsible and probably going to regret it.

Being the older one (I'm 28) I feel the need to tutor than bash, because I've been bashed before and it doesn't really make a difference... actually I think it made me worse, but hey for some others it works, people are different. I say if he admits to his irresponsibilities and tries to correct them, don't lynch him, as some of you are trying to do... if he doesn't then, his own actions will be his own convictions (case in point his car being towed..)

Be the bigger man, try to guide the youth... The Z/G community is large and very respected, we must set examples for others such as POWUH so that they don't screw up represent us, the community, in a demeaning manner.

 

My dad would have chewed me out if I did what this clown did. Then again I had a real dad and not a sperm donor.

Guide the youth? Of today? Are you fuking kidding? The youth of today are so full of themselves.

 

the same question I asked a little while ago but apparently he would not give an answer...

 

Trust me, I understand that... they turn to the media to find their "examples" in life... and that's the prob...

Case in point, yourself Hraesvelg, I know you're a well educated man, and it takes a significant example in someone's life (your case probably your dad) to push someone like you to your heights... which I commend.

I don't know the background specifics on the OP, and can not assume what he has been through or taught... all I can do is hopefully persuade him into attaining a more responsible role as an adult, as you and I have attained in our lives. .

I know this world is not perfect, but I want to make our future better for my future kids by setting a good example. I never had the luxury of having an older brother (I, myself, am the oldest one) and I have to admit my dad is not the best of examples of a "iconinc father" but I got lucky and grew up learning from my mistakes...

and I feel its just those little things in life that help make our world a little better by being helpful and setting positive examples.

 

Probably bought it second hand, and pink slip was given to him, which was probably registered under his name or another adult. I believe you don't necessarily have to have a license to make a purchase if its private.

 

We can guide him to the edge of a cliff so he can jump off it and rid the world of his stupidity.

 

I don't understand your anger towards me

I know I'm not the smartest kid

and some of your insults are hitting me hard

sorry I never had that " dad " hero in my life

my dad was a drug dealer, and in the mafia he left my mom when I was 4 , for a conviction of 12 years in prison for being caught with narcotics and armed rifles

and he has yet to called me or care for me
Ill never know what having a father will be like ,


It has always been my mother till she met my step dad which extremely dislikes me for no apperant reason , but both are extremely hard working , we live in a really wealthy comminity and I thank god for that

you can bash me all you want about my stupidity towards my actions

but please don't insult me like that

sometimes I wished I wasnt here anymore

this whole situation has me looking into this

vey very depressed

http://help.com/post/110343-i-need-s...ways-to-commit

I admited my guilt and willing to do the right thing

and ill probably get made fun of or flamed but this is how I truly feel

hope you guys understand

 

It was your own fault for getting this deep into sh*t. Quit looking for sympathy. That post you just posted is a serious cry for attention and sympathy. Nobody cares about you, nobody cares about your depression.

If you're dad was such a pile of sh*t, why not try to be all you can to show him up? It was your choice in the beginning. I've seen kids living deep in poverty, but they manage to pull themselves up, and now they're attending big name schools in Minnesota.

You screwed up your own life, and you continued to screw it up. It's your fault, don't blame your father or anything. You yourself should have had the motivation to do better, but you didnt.

 

I dont know what to say...

 

It is pretty simple really. You described a situation that you got yourself into through your own stupidity. Rather than simply saying "I screwed up and realize that I'm completely over my head" you instead, in part, said this:

The problem with the above is that "everything will be back to normal" is you driving without a license or insurance! That is NOT acceptable and folks reacted to that.

The next problem is that you need 2 jobs just pay for your car. As others have pointed out, that is very dumb. I'll grant that you are probably not stupid, but your actions sure have been.

Not being able to get a license frankly baffles me. If you can't do that, then you really do have more problems than losing your car and job. Sounds to me as if you may never really tried very hard.

Now we come to this:

Maybe it isn't that he doesn't like you, but that he is pissed off at your lack of responsibility. Too bad about your lousy Dad, but that isn't an excuse for irresponsibility.

I'm afraid you walked right into it. Maybe a bit of hard truth might prove valuable.


It is normal to be depressed when your life hits a low. Damn, you're just a kid! EVERYTHING seems huge when your 18. You'll get past it, and if you're wise you'll learn from it.


Notice the big difference between this and your first post? In your first post you just wanted to get your car back. Now you're talking about doing the right thing. Those are two entirely different things. If you are really willing to do the right thing, then folks have given you some pretty good ideas.

1) sell the car
2) get those jobs
3) learn to read a bus schedule
4) get an education
5) get a license

Only then consider buying another car IF you have those other things under control.

You've been given what you deserve; chastisement, advice, and some rough encouragement. You don't deserve sympathy which is what most of us felt you were asking for in your first post. I wish you the best, but realize that you are the only one with the power to turn things around.

 

And you also said your dad was "hard working". Then you said he was in the mafia and sold drugs.