Destoyed Z...with a horrible twist.
30 day course at Benning means no lock down and permanent party can go home at night. That course was a vacation for me since I was on a recruiting stint. no written exams, PT was a joke, land nav was elementary and the course self correcting, etc.
Wow total loss. Sorry to hear/see this.
Learn your lesson guys. dont let ladies drive your lady. I sold my 4runner 2 days prior to going on holiday for a month, tried to move my Z a few hours prior to take off, to a friends house for safe keeping (very trustworthy individual) didnt have enough time. Left the Z at home and told GF that Ill call him to come pick it up. Im super **** with my possesions that they are respected and taken care of, I trust this guy. Anyways she says, how about you just leave it at home and itll be ok. Horrible gut feeling uhhhh no no no no. But ok i thought heres your test sweetie. Get a call in germany "I sold my car and want to know if I can use yours for 2 days max until i pick up my new one so I dont have to get a rental.(I sold my 4 runner Shoot) Gut feeling again uhhhhhh no no no but I said ok 2 days ill help her out. Come back home month later, car looks ok she says that a part of the roof (hawaii roofs are thin metal or plastic, not solid like mainland with shingles) anyways roof fell on it and scuffed the paint a bit. They had it buffed (idiot who did that burnt through the paint on a corner. But whatever. I look at my exhaust, Oh ****, one tip (Titanium) was bent/crumpled half in. She claimed she never knew. Now in her defense she promissed she was super careful and I beleive her because she knows how **** i can be with my car, however mistakes happen and you just need to know who to trust and who not to depending on what your ok with happening to you vehicle. Id say trust enthusiast friends not random people.
Learn your lesson guys. dont let ladies drive your lady. I sold my 4runner 2 days prior to going on holiday for a month, tried to move my Z a few hours prior to take off, to a friends house for safe keeping (very trustworthy individual) didnt have enough time. Left the Z at home and told GF that Ill call him to come pick it up. Im super **** with my possesions that they are respected and taken care of, I trust this guy. Anyways she says, how about you just leave it at home and itll be ok. Horrible gut feeling uhhhh no no no no. But ok i thought heres your test sweetie. Get a call in germany "I sold my car and want to know if I can use yours for 2 days max until i pick up my new one so I dont have to get a rental.(I sold my 4 runner Shoot) Gut feeling again uhhhhhh no no no but I said ok 2 days ill help her out. Come back home month later, car looks ok she says that a part of the roof (hawaii roofs are thin metal or plastic, not solid like mainland with shingles) anyways roof fell on it and scuffed the paint a bit. They had it buffed (idiot who did that burnt through the paint on a corner. But whatever. I look at my exhaust, Oh ****, one tip (Titanium) was bent/crumpled half in. She claimed she never knew. Now in her defense she promissed she was super careful and I beleive her because she knows how **** i can be with my car, however mistakes happen and you just need to know who to trust and who not to depending on what your ok with happening to you vehicle. Id say trust enthusiast friends not random people.
Thats a long paragraph! Anyway, good luck getting this settled. Must be a terrible feeling. I think your buddy owes you an apology and quite a few Benjamins
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I know I'm kinda late...
Only thing she wrong for is handing the keys off. USAA will cover you as long as you do it in a timley manner. (No waiting) And for those not in the military I don't know in this circumstance but you get short notice you gotta leave today stuff. Wife/GF handle this, its trust, my lady wouldnt do it but not everybody is the same.
I still whip that *** though!!! Jail or not soon as he get out Its on layaway!
Only thing she wrong for is handing the keys off. USAA will cover you as long as you do it in a timley manner. (No waiting) And for those not in the military I don't know in this circumstance but you get short notice you gotta leave today stuff. Wife/GF handle this, its trust, my lady wouldnt do it but not everybody is the same.
I still whip that *** though!!! Jail or not soon as he get out Its on layaway!
sorry to hear about this, good luck getting everything taken care of. If you are going to go after his ins(i suggest you do), you need to file a police report that he stole your veh(explain that he never had permission to use your veh. and used it without your concent) and press charges against him. Also let your insurance know that he did not have permission to use your veh and that you want them to go after his ins for all damages. If you have any other questions, drop me a PM and I will speak with our claims department and see what advise they might have.
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I'm sorry about your car man but I'm willing to bet that dude was driving the car the whole night.Act like everything is cool and just casually ask her if she let him drive the car to the bar if she breaks down and admits it then you know she cant be trusted....And trust me any dude that has the ***** to drive your car like that wouldnt hesitate to hit on your girl.
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I know! The driver front and rear were brand new to due to a previous tard moment of mine 
Definitely not any funny business with my girl. I know the thread is long but if you re-read you would see that it was a LARGE group of friends guys and girls alike she merely drove him because he lives at our apt. complex. I fully trust Ashley.
I know. I am not telling her how stupid it was to give him the keys because I am away and she feels worse than horrible about it all. She even was cry tonight about how sorry she was and how stupid she is for even taking it. I love her and will "speak" with her when it is more appropriate to do so. Now is not the time when I am not there to hug her and love her as she is already depressed about it all.
Yes I know. Explanation: She drives a Chevy Cobalt and I HAD the nice car. Of course she wants to take it out and show off a bit with our friends. I love her and allow her to do this. She fuked up by handing of the keys but as stated about I'm not gonna blast her over the phone when I am not around because she does feel terrible about it all.
Trust me I am regretting this brainiac maneuver that I came up with. IF I had stayed at Benning guess who would have been home to go to BWW for the BDAY party? (God I am so pissed I didn't stay now that you mention it)
Thank you much. I will be in touch with USAA tomorrow and will let you know if I have any questions after that call! I don't know about the stolen car thing either as you can see the story sounds a little off. Although I was told this IS what happened you can see from the skepticism here how others are perceiving it differently. However that was my thought as well because then I have a basis for a civil suit.
I know for a fact Ashley wouldn't let him drive it around "all night". As for the dude driving car like an asshat comment, you are probably right although he IS married.
You are quite correct. Not to mention the fact I would be just pissed if he merely took it without asking let alone DRUNK and driving like a complete moron.
Thank you all for your input it is greatly appreciated.
dude who is this trenton guy? things don't sound right... hate to tell you but I would want someone to point that out to me. For her to even think about giving your keys to another man is outrageous. And at a BAR? And as stated previously it sounds like she probably let him drive it. Hope it works out for the best and hope trenton wasn't doin any funny business with your girl
I know. I am not telling her how stupid it was to give him the keys because I am away and she feels worse than horrible about it all. She even was cry tonight about how sorry she was and how stupid she is for even taking it. I love her and will "speak" with her when it is more appropriate to do so. Now is not the time when I am not there to hug her and love her as she is already depressed about it all.
the nice car. Of course she wants to take it out and show off a bit with our friends. I love her and allow her to do this. She fuked up by handing of the keys but as stated about I'm not gonna blast her over the phone when I am not around because she does feel terrible about it all.sorry to hear about this, good luck getting everything taken care of. If you are going to go after his ins(i suggest you do), you need to file a police report that he stole your veh(explain that he never had permission to use your veh. and used it without your concent) and press charges against him. Also let your insurance know that he did not have permission to use your veh and that you want them to go after his ins for all damages. If you have any other questions, drop me a PM and I will speak with our claims department and see what advise they might have.
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I'm sorry about your car man but I'm willing to bet that dude was driving the car the whole night.Act like everything is cool and just casually ask her if she let him drive the car to the bar if she breaks down and admits it then you know she cant be trusted....And trust me any dude that has the ***** to drive your car like that wouldnt hesitate to hit on your girl.
Thank you all for your input it is greatly appreciated.
Thank you much. I will be in touch with USAA tomorrow and will let you know if I have any questions after that call! I don't know about the stolen car thing either as you can see the story sounds a little off. Although I was told this IS what happened you can see from the skepticism here how others are perceiving it differently. However that was my thought as well because then I have a basis for a civil suit
I say loose the car and the girl seriously. They both can be replaced and it obvious that some things aren't right in ur abscence. Start off with a new clean slate when u return! Good Luck!
Sorry bro, accidents happen and all, but you brought this on yourself. I hope it all works out in the end, but if you get the Z fixed and let her ever drive it again, you're a fool. Post some pics of her so we can see how amazingly hot she is for you to be so cool about this.
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Cars are easier to fix then relationships. You sound like a nice guy, and your girl just needs to learn to think a bit more i suppose. Hopefully shes learned to be more responsible form this experience. I hope everything works out for you.
Wow total loss. Sorry to hear/see this.
Learn your lesson guys. dont let ladies drive your lady. I sold my 4runner 2 days prior to going on holiday for a month, tried to move my Z a few hours prior to take off, to a friends house for safe keeping (very trustworthy individual) didnt have enough time. Left the Z at home and told GF that Ill call him to come pick it up. Im super **** with my possesions that they are respected and taken care of, I trust this guy. Anyways she says, how about you just leave it at home and itll be ok. Horrible gut feeling uhhhh no no no no. But ok i thought heres your test sweetie. Get a call in germany "I sold my car and want to know if I can use yours for 2 days max until i pick up my new one so I dont have to get a rental.(I sold my 4 runner Shoot) Gut feeling again uhhhhhh no no no but I said ok 2 days ill help her out. Come back home month later, car looks ok she says that a part of the roof (hawaii roofs are thin metal or plastic, not solid like mainland with shingles) anyways roof fell on it and scuffed the paint a bit. They had it buffed (idiot who did that burnt through the paint on a corner. But whatever. I look at my exhaust, Oh ****, one tip (Titanium) was bent/crumpled half in. She claimed she never knew. Now in her defense she promissed she was super careful and I beleive her because she knows how **** i can be with my car, however mistakes happen and you just need to know who to trust and who not to depending on what your ok with happening to you vehicle. Id say trust enthusiast friends not random people.
Learn your lesson guys. dont let ladies drive your lady. I sold my 4runner 2 days prior to going on holiday for a month, tried to move my Z a few hours prior to take off, to a friends house for safe keeping (very trustworthy individual) didnt have enough time. Left the Z at home and told GF that Ill call him to come pick it up. Im super **** with my possesions that they are respected and taken care of, I trust this guy. Anyways she says, how about you just leave it at home and itll be ok. Horrible gut feeling uhhhh no no no no. But ok i thought heres your test sweetie. Get a call in germany "I sold my car and want to know if I can use yours for 2 days max until i pick up my new one so I dont have to get a rental.(I sold my 4 runner Shoot) Gut feeling again uhhhhhh no no no but I said ok 2 days ill help her out. Come back home month later, car looks ok she says that a part of the roof (hawaii roofs are thin metal or plastic, not solid like mainland with shingles) anyways roof fell on it and scuffed the paint a bit. They had it buffed (idiot who did that burnt through the paint on a corner. But whatever. I look at my exhaust, Oh ****, one tip (Titanium) was bent/crumpled half in. She claimed she never knew. Now in her defense she promissed she was super careful and I beleive her because she knows how **** i can be with my car, however mistakes happen and you just need to know who to trust and who not to depending on what your ok with happening to you vehicle. Id say trust enthusiast friends not random people.