its all good here. the last 3 yrs have been very stressful culminating with my dad passing in july. the constant stress finally started effecting my health a bit, so decided to make "life" changes. I build cars, so sold off a couple long term project cars & told the mrs "i'm gonna buy something I can get in & enjoy now, not after waiting for a couple years while I build it". she was all for it when I started leaning towards a "z". after we were first married (11 yrs ago) & she saw some of the junk I drug in here, then what I turned it into, there has never been an issue.