I pay 100% of the time when I go out them... doesn't matter if we're in a group setting, if they're aquaintances, whatever.. as long as I can remember, they never ever pay for anything - not even coffee. When I went to Korea, the girls actually fork out $.. I was in utter shock, cuz I never witnessed it, EVER!! Girls in US are sooo much uglier, and they want to be treated like princesses.. I could've bought another house with all the money I spent on biatchez..

 

I love asian chicks but latinas are the same way. When I go out with a chic to a bar or club and she tells me " I'm thirsty or I want a drink " I respond " Me too so while your at the bar get me something to drink " ...

 

idk i pay for everything even if she is only a friend and not my girl.

 

they CAN get guys to pay for everything, so they expect it. my ex was used to guys forking over $$$ in quantities i couldn't even afford. she wasn't interested in what i could afford.

 

I guess you are not getting a lot of a$$ with that attitude.

Guys dont be cheap - you have to pay in order to play.

 

+1

The most successful guys are able to make the girl think that what they want is exactly what she wants, but in today's world, you're not going to get very far (esp w/ women in their 20's and 30's) asking to go 50/50.

 

My girl is from China and yes the men over there kiss her a$$ and pay for everything as well. Very typical for asian men to wine and dine their women. I must have lucked out because she has no problem buying me things and paying for an occasional dinner.

 

I don't mind paying if it's going somewhere: relationship, networking with her friends, or long term friends (usually not the case). But if she is dressed to kill and I suspect she is pulling the same crap on every shmuck then I may play some mind games to turn the tables around before I walk away. A drink is not a problem but I don't kiss her butt and buy her a meal.

 

I knew some chicks that used to play guys for money. They were comming from a very well situated families - and did it for fun. They used to bet on how much money can she get from a particular guy. They were very very seductive and stupid guys used to pay for everything. I dont mean drink or dinner - but high dollar items. Poor guys spend some decent money when they finally realized they aint going nowhere (he was lucky if he did get a kiss)

Life is really easy if you are a pretty girl - you can get most of the things for free. Stupid (naive) guys are everywhere.

 

It use to be that men paid for all the ladies needs. Now boys and girls fight over who pays the bills. Times sure have changed

My wife doesn't work so I give her a few twentys a month for her use. If I'm running low in my wallet she sneaks me money back rather than letting the waiter see her forking over the money to me. How sweet.

 

It doesn't make it neccessarily easy. They get things from guys for free but imagine getting hit on 24/7. Also they get babied all their lives so they don't make the effort for anything or have a humble personality. But their fate usually ends up being some rich guys trophy wife or a hasbeen who still shops at Forever21 at 35. I met one who was really hot but was getting too old for any wealthy man to start a family or have babies with. We went out and I made her pay for dinner and she was furious because this has never happened to her before.

Most of the peoples moms here weren't like that. Go to the M3 forum with the whiney 18 year old and you will know what their mothers are like.

 

actually it works very well why do you think women always date guys that are a-holes and not the nice guys. As a female you have to admit dating a NICE guy can get boring but someone who has some adventure is more interesting. I seem to meet more women with my attitude like that than when I try to be the nice guy. Now NOT ALL women are the same so there is a exception to every rule . I have had women compliment me more for not allowing them to walk all over me and actually have some ***** as opposed to the guys women walk all over.

 

+1

 

whoever has to pay to get some is a tool

 

+2. now that sounds like a Leykis 101 student right there

gotta follow the 3 strike rules, guys. never spend more than $40 on a date if u can avoid it. if she doesn't put out by the 3rd date then u better dump that biatch and move on

 

Leykis is soooooo right about women it is scary. I knew most of this crap even before listening to him.

 

dude every one has to pay - we just pay in a different form. Some pay cash, some pay with dinners/drinks and some with presents...

 

we all knew Ed pimps all da way from the east coast to da west yo!

 

1) I am a male.
2) I am pretty good at playing chicks. The rule is to play it smart and adjust to them. If she want a bad guy give it to her, if she want a good guy - play like you are an angel. Always tell a girl what she wants to her (not exacly what is the truth).


J (I am pretty confident I can get most of the chiks - either with my personality or with my money)

 

After the 4th date she better start picking up some of the bills when we go out. When I am dating a chick i let HER know that if she wants some d*ck then she better play on even ground. Otherwise I will go after her friend(s).