Racial Issue: Mid-A Interracial Couples Thread
02-03-2009, 07:45 AM
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Ok I know I'm like the drama king of Mid-A right after Anh and Bryce. But bare with me. This topic is quite sensitive and personal.
As some of you know I have been dating a half White half Asian girl. I guess she looks a lot more white than Asian so people always consider me dating a "white chick". I've dated a few white girls before so it's not really anything new for me. But this is like my first serious relationship with a "white girl" or at least someone who looks as white as her. Everywhere we go in the Mid-A region, we get weird looks and hear little comments here and there.
Last week, we went to an authentic Mexican restaurant(One that's owned and run by real Mexicans) in Glen Burnie. I overheard this Mexican waiter saying, "Look at that ***** and the loose white girl. He probably has a lot of money." For your information, I can understand a lot of Spanish from taking classes in school and working with Mexicans back in my restaurant days. We were furious and left without giving any tips.
I can understand hearing comments from white guys who are just plain jealous because I "stole" one of their women. But hearing comments from other minorities all the time as well? What's going on?! Of course I'm not going to let this stop me from my dating life. I just want to hear you guys out on similar stories since I've personally met quite a few interracial couples here.
Now is this whole discrimination on interracial relationship thing common outside of Mid-A? I've heard that up in Boston it's actually the cool new thing for white girls to date Asian guys these days.
As some of you know I have been dating a half White half Asian girl. I guess she looks a lot more white than Asian so people always consider me dating a "white chick". I've dated a few white girls before so it's not really anything new for me. But this is like my first serious relationship with a "white girl" or at least someone who looks as white as her. Everywhere we go in the Mid-A region, we get weird looks and hear little comments here and there.
Last week, we went to an authentic Mexican restaurant(One that's owned and run by real Mexicans) in Glen Burnie. I overheard this Mexican waiter saying, "Look at that ***** and the loose white girl. He probably has a lot of money." For your information, I can understand a lot of Spanish from taking classes in school and working with Mexicans back in my restaurant days. We were furious and left without giving any tips.
I can understand hearing comments from white guys who are just plain jealous because I "stole" one of their women. But hearing comments from other minorities all the time as well? What's going on?! Of course I'm not going to let this stop me from my dating life. I just want to hear you guys out on similar stories since I've personally met quite a few interracial couples here.
Now is this whole discrimination on interracial relationship thing common outside of Mid-A? I've heard that up in Boston it's actually the cool new thing for white girls to date Asian guys these days.
02-03-2009, 07:48 AM
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Yeah, Ethan, didn't you say that a white guy was dating a family member of yours and your parents were calling that person "White Devil" in chinese?
No disrespect to anyone but it seems like the Asian parents are the ones that don't approve of any interracial dating in their families.
No disrespect to anyone but it seems like the Asian parents are the ones that don't approve of any interracial dating in their families.
02-03-2009, 07:52 AM
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What is this I hear that white rice and brown rice shouldn't be mixed together? 
Etan.....quit stealing all the white chicks (even if they really aren't and just look white) and you won't won't have a problem.
I mean gosh man...what is a poor white guy to do when there is no more white chicks for him to please? U know what....We gonna steal all your Asian chicks...how would you like that huh? Take that!
Ignorant people will always exist man. Thats just the way it is. For those of you that get stares...and say that it's b/c you're a "mixed-couple"...If it was a guy staring...I'd automatically think he's staring at my girl b/c she's teh hotness and they want a piece of it. Could this be some of the "stares" possibly?
Slim....It's definitely that you're the most ginormous human I've seen in quite some time and she's 5'1".
Etan.....quit stealing all the white chicks (even if they really aren't and just look white) and you won't won't have a problem.
I mean gosh man...what is a poor white guy to do when there is no more white chicks for him to please? U know what....We gonna steal all your Asian chicks...how would you like that huh? Take that! Ignorant people will always exist man. Thats just the way it is. For those of you that get stares...and say that it's b/c you're a "mixed-couple"...If it was a guy staring...I'd automatically think he's staring at my girl b/c she's teh hotness and they want a piece of it. Could this be some of the "stares" possibly?
Slim....It's definitely that you're the most ginormous human I've seen in quite some time and she's 5'1".
02-03-2009, 07:54 AM
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Yeah, Ethan, didn't you say that a white guy was dating a family member of yours and your parents were calling that person "White Devil" in chinese?
No disrespect to anyone but it seems like the Asian parents are the ones that don't approve of any interracial dating in their families.
No disrespect to anyone but it seems like the Asian parents are the ones that don't approve of any interracial dating in their families.
Ask Ted and he'll tell you about how all his Asian ex's parents hated him.
02-03-2009, 07:59 AM
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Etan.....quit stealing all the white chicks (even if they really aren't and just look white) and you won't won't have a problem. I mean gosh man...what is a poor white guy to do when there is no more white chicks for him to please? U know what....We gonna steal all your Asian chicks...how would you like that huh? Take that!
I mean gosh man...what is a poor white guy to do when there is no more white chicks for him to please? U know what....We gonna steal all your Asian chicks...how would you like that huh? Take that!
02-03-2009, 08:07 AM
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white girls call me Takumi fujiwara in bed.. cuz i can touge battle there vagina uphill and downhill. i used inertia drift on this one chick once...... crayceee.
02-03-2009, 09:01 AM
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Don't sweat it too much man, I date a half asian half white chick too and she looks more white than asian... and I don't exactly look like I'm asian myself... Majority of people think im half black and white so I hear those kinds of under-the-breath talk alot.
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