I scooped up a girl last week, and she's really cool. I'm taking her out this Saturday (valentines day, the hallmark holiday etc etc). I have her from around 4 - 10:30 PM or so. Stuff I've done in the past in Atlanta, and NJ is sold out. And I understand, it's pretty last minute, so I was pretty much expecting this.

I can take care of 7 - 10:30 easily, with a dinner, dessert, and then a walk. It's the ~4 - 7 part that i'm struggling with right now. She's told me how she wants to learn how to drive stick, so I'm considering teaching her 'how to ride' :snicker:, for an hour or so, but it'd be nice if I could get something that won't thrash the Z, lol.

Thanks in advance- you guys are ALWAYS helpful when it comes down to things to do in the area! I appreciate it.

 

WOW!!! Pump your brakes yung pimpin'!!! There are alot of variables that must be considered. How many times have ya'll kicked it? How much are you looking to spend? If I just met a chic last week, don't really care how cool she is, she's still kinda on friend status.. dinner should be enough maybe some candy that's it. I mean you just met this chick. I would kill two birds with one stone, take her to Dave and Busters, play some games, win her a stuff animal or something, and ask "your place or mine". As for her driving the whip...that's another negative. I mean you have to be pretty close to wifey status to drive the Z and I have to know you for some months. You dont want to end up SOL becuase see done burnt up something..

G/L

my .02

 

screw that. its too early to be doing all types of crap for her. she has to earn a valentines day. just take her to a movie and then t.g.i.fridays or something maybe take her go-karting to see if she can actually drive.

 

Yes F that it is WAAAAAAAAY to early for you to be doing stuff just send her a text saying happy V-Day I will post up the V-Day rules that I posted up on my other forums.

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Re: Need Help for Vday!
If I may make a suggestion V-Day is a perfect time to break up with her, if she see you are going out of your way to do cute stuff like go out to dinner or make her cupcakes and give it to her or even make her a nice card and put roses all over her car, she simply is seeing that you are weak and can easily be walked on. Now my guess is that you have a reasonably short leash, the honest to god best thing to do that day is look her dead in the eye while holding her finger tips and talking softly " Baby I just can't do this anymore I purely just want to **** and whats not a better day than today and if you care for me you will understand" and your problem will be solved, lets think about the positives, shall we......?
1. More money for JDM tight ****
2. No naggy/squealing and faking orgasms
3. A upbeat free spirted mood on life
4. Getting random BJ's from other girls and not feeling guilty.
I am glad I can help for any other relationship advice and/or tips feel free to drop me a PM.

 

+1 you've known her for a week... who is she to you that you're taking all this time planning stuff? She's just another girl like every other girl on this planet. But I'd stick to fun activities (interactive) where you can snap pics and poke fun of each other afterward.

 

hahahaha only you joe. i dont know about you but ive never had a girl fake an orgasm. that might be why your single on valentines day.

 

Uhh Corvair' young Bobby I am not single that day I am actually going out with an Ex.

 

why your only going to be disappointed when you have to go home and sit on your hand till it goes numb, then its just like every other night....nothing special.

 

Nooo not that ex the other one, the one that won't leave me dissapointed.

 

ohhhhhh ok then. have fun getting the clap. back on subject anyone have other usefull suggestions.

 

The stranger sucks.. Man I feel sorry for cats with g/f's on holidays like Valentines day. Pimpin is going to spend that doe, get a kiss on the cheek, and is going to have to worry about "the stranger" later on. I'm telling ya save the doe, the economy is beat right now.. If you got that "Arab/Republican" money wild out but not to many people go it like that today..

 

You will get if you tell a chic this. Listen to a playa stick to the game plan D&B and "your place or mine". Simple and easy.

 

damn you let girls drive you whip after a week?

in that case... hi.. my name is Tina and I dont own ANY manual cars in my driveway:cough:.. you should let me learn on yours...


how's next wednesday for ya?

 

This is good advice, D&B it is- I should've come up with that one sooner, lol. Thanks for grounding me again everybody (special thanks to jazzman, lol)

 

I read through the thread again, to make sure I didn't miss anything, and D&B is just brilliant, lol. That combined with the snappin' pics is valentines day gold (thanks abui01)

 

Great pics photogenic.. I'm Jon

 

Any time pimpin' any time . The picture idea was great to abui has some game about him watch out naw don't let the mcdonald get up fool ya!
I hope you have a great evening with your girl and all. Just stick to the plan. Remember with anyone, there is a cost+ratio= what's in it for me benefit. If anytime your cost (i.e. time or money or a combination of both) exceeds the ratio of the output (i.e. person) it will out weigh the what's in it for me benefit (i.e. getting laid). It's a complex and delicate balance. In the end no one likes getting had or burned (physically, financially, or sexually). When I was a youngbuck I made some of these mistakes with women and got burned. Nothing feels worst on the pockets. Women are actually more simplistic than most men think. Since a majority are very emotional beings, simple things like asking them about their day, buying some flower, and getting to know them like your car will get you a farther than throwing money at them (think about it). If she is money driven let her go man...you can't afford her in the end.
Put this into retrospect, women get about three major holidays a year (Valentine's day, their birthday, and Xmas). As men, we spend extravagant amounts of money on these three holidays and end up with a tie or some socks or some s*it you don't want in the first place. If this chic means that much next valentine's day you can go all out and you can still get your volks before summer time .

 

you're overthinking it, just go with it be yourself and have fun

 

On a side note: keep in mind your main objectives, within the first few dates - it's always to:

1. have fun
2. heighten levels of attraction
3. book the 2nd date (or if you're super pimp, have her ask you out on the 2nd date... hell.. you did your job already w/ the 1st one!)

 

(with the Iceman accent from top gun) "You can be my wingman anytime abui"