Yeah...My gf of almost 3 years just broke up with me because she thinks i only spend my money on the Z, and not saving up for anything else.

 

Is she right?

 

isn't time for you to see which one is your priority?

 

Yeah but i save up on the side. You cant explain **** to women

 

what would you say?

 

Tis, tis on her.

Dosen't she have something she spends her money on?

Did you spend money on the vehicle before the Z?

Not the sole reason IMHO.

 

Well time to find a new one that will appreciate the Z. Anyone who would get jealous over a car sounds like a likely psycho killer to me.

 

i went to the same thing so i slow down on spending on the Z. Let her know that she is my #1 priority. Other may say drop the girl keep the Z but it is all up to you. I would slow down on the Z and keep the gurl. 3 years is long commitment you have there. If you sick, will your Z cooks and take care for you? You can get something out of your gurl if you pump money in, you would get NOTHING when you keep pumping money to your Z.

 

I dont think it is either..but thats the only thing she said.

 

Thats a sad excuse to leave you.

 

What the hell? You don't make her pay for your meals and stuff right?

On that note, did you still pay for her meals at least half of the time?

Did she leave because you don't spend money on her, or because she thinks you should be saving up for ...say... a down payment on a house ?

 

yeah the thing is that i am saving up on a downpayment on the house that i will be getting in another 2 years after i get my bachlors degree in business..and she paid maybe for 2 meals in this whole 3 year time..

 

I feel for you, there is a very difficult decision awaiting your attention. Good Luck and never do anything in life that you one day may look back and regret.

Best advice I've ever received....... from my father when I told him my Hu wanted a divorce.

I'm divorced.

 

oh boy, slow down on your Z spending.

 

What an ungrateful girl... my girlfriend damn near insists on paying for meals sometimes, even if I pay for her 90+% of the time. She has commented that she thinks modding is for "guys who think they're the $hi7" (in her words, not mine -- I repeat, this is not what I think about modding ), but I doubt she would leave me if I spent a few G's on intake exhaust etc.

 

Oh yeah and we've been together 6 years.

 

lol wow thats so funny.. my ex and I got into problems as soon as i got my z...but she obviously isnt worth it if she cant appreciate your hobbies or your own car that you work hard for....you see the z is a chick magnet for sure but then again girls hate on it cus it looks better than alot of them lol

 

If she is going to leave you for that you are better off without her..its a sign of things to come if you stayed with her. Let her be somebody elses headache. I mean "damn" she is just your girlfriend not your wife. Look elsewhere dude.

 

And by the way, if she left you, don't effing call her. If she wants you back, she'll call.

If she calls and gets pissed that YOU didn't call HER, hang up and proceed to nearest bar to pick up a new chick.

Just trying to save you the trouble that one of my good buddies went through just weeks ago. Bytch-azz girl was stringing him along, poor guy. It took him weeks of torment to realize he should just stop returning her calls.

 

Take the advice ..you just got your first warning sign. ( or maybe it wasnt your first)

Dont ignore warning signs.